Do you feel like maybe it’s a knee-jerk worry about cultural appropriation, the Korean name thing? Because I can kind of get it, but ftr I don’t think that’s a thing you need to be anxious about. Also, re: gender neutral Korean names - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Korean_unisex_given_names - Some of those, if you click on them, tell you if they’re most commonly masculune or feminine. Jae-young is one that is super common for both men and women (I looked at the J-sounding names first lol)